snowflake challenge 3

[aliensamba]

Challenge #3: Guess Who's Coming to Dinner

In your own space, tell us who, from one of your fandoms, would you most want to have dinner with (or tea, or a random afternoon visit), And why? This could be a creator, an actor, a costumer, a set designer, a director, a character, a composer, anybody! What would you talk about? What are you dying to know?




In theory, this would be great but I know that when faced with new people I am reticent and prefer to listen than to converse. I am not quick to interact with people who I admire [and even with people I have just met].

I can talk about my favorite in a fandom but I don't know if I can talk to them face to face. I think it's difficult to interact with someone I admire because I already have this idea of them in my head and I think the interaction would by clouded by these pre-conceived notions.

I sometimes worry that I might offend someone when I leave a comment [in a fanwork, in an FB post, etc] because my conversation skills are rusty. I find myself reading and reviewing whatever I comment to see if it will not be misinterpreted.

And in the end, I sometimes end up saying "Kudos!" on a fanwork and feel as though it's not enough.

 

Comments

[paulamcg]

Thank you so much for sharing this! It's wonderful that you're aware of how you tend to feel and act and what you prefer. Myself, I'm relieved that this challenge is just makebelieve and I won't really have to talk to a celebrity. :)

In any case, I'd like to encourage you to talk (in comments on fanworks) to the fans whom and/or whose work you like. I'm sure you're able to make it clear enough that what you want to say is positive. And as far as I know, we all love all feedback on our works. ♥

[aliensamba]

Commenting is going to be one of my 2021 resolutions. I want to be comfortable expressing my appreciation for a fanwork/anything.

[paulamcg]

I trust you yourself, too, will feel happy after giving feedback. By all feedback (above) I meant kudos, too. And as others have said below, kudos, too, makes writers happy, and I didn't mean to give you pressure, urging you to write comments. But you've now also got that great piece of advice that you can look at other people's comments so as to become more confident. And you'll see that a lot of people say only "Kudos" or "Lovely", and such comments are always appreciated even in case the same story has got detailed comments, too. (And people who don't want comments can turn that function off.)